How do you handle religion when raising children?

It's sad that your side of the family does not respect your beliefs (or lack there of). I raised my kids to be independent thinkers. I personally believe religion teaches non acceptance of others and I do not want my children to EVER not accept someone because their beliefs may be different or of their ual orientation etc. You need to talk to your family and tell them to mind their own business in the nicest possible way.